I have to write about my Thanksgiving Day so next year I will remember what I cooked and how it turned out. Because this year I did a couple of things differently and I want to do them again!
First, my son smoked a turkey. He took care of the bird, and it came out yummy. I took the neck, kidneys, liver and neck (is that what those things are?) … anyway, the inside stuff… and made stock, or broth. I then used that stock to make the stuffing and gravy. It was tasty.
Because we were having our heating / AC unit replaced the day before Thanksgiving, I never got to the store to buy my wine (I drank whiskey instead), or pick up some cranberry sauce, I decided to make my own … cranberry sauce that is. Here is how I made it.
We also had mashed potatoes, and I never got around to cooking a vegetable, but my sons don’t care about that, so it was okay. I will cook veggies to go with the leftovers.
I am in Florida now, so it was a hot and sunny day. Not too hot, but shorts and sleeveless tops hot. My son smoked up the neighborhood while cooking the bird, but I think all the neighbors were gone. It was a quiet and peaceful day.
We still don’t have living room furniture, and the table was crammed with stuff that needs to be put somewhere, so we sat in chairs and watched tv. We’ve only been living in the new house for about a month now. Then the boys played some video games, which was fun to watch. I called my son in Kentucky and my daughter in New Hampshire. I’ve given up thinking that one day we can all be together for a holiday.
The thing I was most thankful for was the dishwasher.
I tried something new Thanksgiving Day 2016 and added loads of flavor to the meal. I used all the inside stuff from the turkey – the neck, kidneys, etc – not the liver, throw it away (that’s what recipes said).
Brown all that stuff in oil in a large pan for 5 minutes.
While it’s browning cut up a carrot, celery stick, and onion, into bigger chunks.
Crush garlic cloves. Pick parsley & basil from garden and rinse.
After 5 minutes add the veggies to the pot and cook for another 5 minutes.
Add chicken broth – 2 cups because it tends to be too salty. And 4 cups of water. Total 6 cups however you want.
Boil on medium for 45-60 minutes, uncovered.
Strain through a colander and dump out veggies. Use the broth for making stuffing and gravy. (We used 2 Publix packets of gravy, and Stove Top stuffing.) I had just enough stock to make both. It added great flavor.
I also made my own cranberry sauce since no one eats it but me. I’m not picky, and it was pretty good. I’ve never worked with whole, fresh cranberries before. I though they were only used to make garland for the Christmas tree!
On a recent visit to Pells Nursery in Osteen, we came across some unique honey called “Black Mangrove” that comes from bees in the Mosquito Lagoon! The Lagoon is widely known for it’s fishing, but I’ve never heard of honey coming from there. We had to buy it.
The Black Mangrove honey is darker in color and not as thick as other types I’ve had, but it’s delicious. It’s made by Sun Splash Nursery of New Smyrna Beach. They are an organic farm and the place is not too far from where I live now. Their Farmer’s Market is open 8am till 3:30pm Monday thru Friday. I must go there soon and see what they are selling for produce. (Update – this place does not seem to exist! We drove over and found nothing there. Site must be old.)
Back to the honey. Raw honey is far superior to store bought generic brands and I love to find new types to try. This one also has an interesting story behind it. The company has the right to access the islands filled with black mangrove trees in the Mosquito Lagoon. All during the Florida summer they collect honey while the mangroves bloom.
We have fished out on the Intracoastal, and have heard bees buzzing on the islands. Now I will be able to picture them working away to make us their fabulous honey! Below in my photo from another blog of mine (Seashells by Millhill), you can see what those mangrove covered islands look like.
There are many, many islands like this out on the Intracoastal Waterway, which includes Mosquito Lagoon.
What a great idea to collect honey from that area! The Sun Splash company will ship their honey to customers, so click the link I provided above if you are interested in trying some for yourself.
Read an article by the Daytona Beach News Journal, written September 2016 about the owner and how he came to help out the bees (and himself) by putting beehives out on the remote Intracoastal islands.
As a side note, I noticed that the Sun Splash Nursery website also has a page containing gardening advice, which will be helpful as I plan my vegetable gardens. I look forward to visiting their nursery soon.
I began this blog with the hope of sharing my gardening experience, like so many normal people do. But I am not normal. Or should I say, my life is not normal. By this time, I am probably a little off my rocker as well.
After closing on my new home just the other day, (it was delayed because of Hurricane Matthew, which didn’t surprise me a bit) I now have to face moving again. I am not young. There is a household of items to move, as well as a storage unit full. It will be up to me and my two sons to do all the heavy lifting. On the bright side, this keeps me fit. I am stronger than the typical sixty-year old woman, for sure.
Recently I counted up the times I had moved in my life and came to the extraordinary number of 14. I look forward to living in a nice home, and hopefully the last I will ever live in. It’s not anything fabulous, but it will be comfortable. Anyone who has moved to a new place knows that it takes time to get settled in, and I hate that I will have to waste more of my life doing that, one more time.
Many – no ALL – of my friends (or, past friends, I should say) are settled in life. People my age own homes that are paid off. They are not just now signing up for a 30-year mortgage! They have fun. Many of them spend time traveling and visiting their kids the grandkids. They go to weddings, go out to dinner, have parties, take vacations, and share stories of their fantastic lives on their FaceBook pages. They live. They have normal lives.
They live the kind of life I always expected to have in my later years. Why not expect that? But, for me, it went the other way. This is mainly why they are “past friends”. I have nothing in common with my old friends these days. And I can’t expect them to understand. I only visit FaceBook because I have a Store Page there, for my business. Yes, I will be working until I die. No retirement and slowing down for me.
I accept my lot in life. What else can I do? My posts here have become depressing, even for me, so I apologize. Soon, I hope to have some photos and info about building raised garden beds. I plan to have a few on my new property. That will make me feel more normal. In the meantime, I will be packing.
I’ve had a bad year. I’m not going further back than that, but these past months have been especially hard. After dealing with a drop in income and buying absolutely nothing extra for nearly three years, I was able to quickly sell my New Hampshire home and move back to Florida. I never wanted to come back here to live, but it’s more affordable. Also my older son is a firefighter here and my younger son is attending college here. It was my only option. Without money, there are few options in life.
There will be no basement storage in Florida
I had a big yard sale, gave items away, and called a local shop to pick up lots of my furniture before we packed up the Penske truck and took the three day drive from New England to Florida. All of that was a tremendous effort, not to mention the packing, showing the house, and my sadness at having to leave – move again.
Since June my younger son and I have been living with my older son in his rental house in east central Florida. I dislike the area and hate the heat. But I am sucking it up, and trying to make the best of it. I know it’s foolish of me to hope for a better future, but when that is all there is, it can’t be helped. We began looking for a house to buy together right away. We found one and began the buying process.
Yesterday we were scheduled to close on the house. Everyone has been watching the path of Hurricane Matthew and it seemed to be headed straight for the coast where my new home is located. I wondered at the wisdom of closing on a home the day before a major hurricane hits.
My worries were lessened when one hour before the closing I got a call from the Mortgage company saying there was a moratorium on closings! It had been delayed because of the storm’s approach.
Depending on the damage left behind by this storm, it may be a while before we can close and get ourselves moved in. The house is only a few miles from the beach, so it may get some damage – and then what? The nightmare goes on.
I say ending the year with a disaster, but really there are a few months to go. Time for even more fun to happen in my life.
Standing in line at Publix with everyone buying food before the Hurricane.
Here’s to you, the woman gardener, but only if you do it ALL on your own. It doesn’t count if you have a hubby who builds the raised beds for you, or lugs the soil to refurbish the beds. It doesn’t count if he lifts the heavy stuff or does the weeding. This post is for the women like me, who do everything, from the planning, buying and planting, to bug control, watering, picking, cooking and preserving on their own.
I wonder how many of us there are out there. I’ve read, and followed, plenty of blogs written about gardening. Men and women both like to write and share photos of their gardening endeavors, but I can’t remember ever reading a blog by a single woman who does it all. Maybe that is because single women don’t ordinarily like to advertise their aloneness on the internet. And I am not alone, just when it comes to gardening!
I know you are out there, and I know what it takes to try to find the time to do it all. I work full time, and am raising a son, and if I want to eat fresh vegetables from my backyard, I have to find the time to grow the crops too. As gardeners well know, the planting is the easy part.
Getting the soil ready comes first. I’ve always wanted to have a nice compost pile, but my yard is small, with lots of shade, and I really don’t have the extra time to tend to it anyway. So each year I order a truck full of loam and use the wheelbarrow to move it to the gardens. It’s a lengthy process. I’m not all that young any more, and I’m also not as healthy as I’d like to be (due to a form of kidney disease that is hereditary). I can’t go out and work all day in the yard. My body won’t let me. I also have to find the time to do the mowing and general yard maintenance.
Backyard Gardening
One Day at a Time
So I begin working as early as possible as the growing season approaches here in New England. I want to have things ready for June planting. Often I will grow a few pea vines first, but I’m not good at making stakes to hold them up. This is where a guy’s help would really come in handy. My staking attempts usually mean the produce will fall over eventually. Being alone means I have to be more resourceful. I plant climbing vegetables next to the deck so the vines can use the railing to climb.
A Quiet Rustic Sitting Area
I enjoy reading all types of garden blogs, and women who have help are just luckier. They tend to get the easier jobs that go along with growing, once the heavy lifting parts are in place. And “their” gardens tend to be quite large in size, amazingly so.
How do they afford such a huge yard? They are not the sole income source of the household. How do they cope with all the maintenance? Someone else does the “manly” chores. Two people can accomplish more than one.
It doesn’t mean us single gals can’t have something nice. We just have to do the work of two people. I know all about that struggle.
Here’s to you!
Soon I will have help when I live near my son. He can help build the raised beds and deliver the garden dirt. When something is too heavy for me to lift, I can ask for his help. But even if I had to do it all alone until the day I simply couldn’t, I would keep gardening.
You know what I mean.
Heres to you, the Woman Gardener
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